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靠老的吃饭 Depends on parents to survive
靠老的吃饭
天还未亮，一位60多岁老妈，骑着脚车给在家，不愿工作的40多岁女儿买吃。
这段时间，正是孩子上学繁忙时刻，天蒙蒙，车来攘往多危险？
相信马上想起啃老族。
什么是啃老族？
就是孩子怕辛苦，选择在家接受父母接济。
但事有两面， 之前说的老妈，怕独生女嫁了不理自己，情愿把她留在身边，纵容，让她闯祸，久之，空虚，依赖，害怕得再不敢面对人群。虽不愁吃穿，但已不知为何而活？这是真人真事。
父母者是否想过，一旦过世，孩子将如何生存？
常见俩老埋怨孩子太忙，为何不想现在是什么时势？上要顾老，下要家小的负担。经已累得喘不过气。
所以该安慰，有个尽责又长进的孩子，太溺爱，反养成贪图安逸，受丁点委屈，便回家吃老米，没钱跟朋友借，父母还，再找不着上代刻苦耐劳的精神。
记得有个寓言，富翁把家财留给两个聪明孩子，独留一把锄头给智障小儿子，教他务农。结局是，小儿子好好活着。而他两个哥哥，却因坐吃山空成了乞丐。
这段时间，正是孩子上学繁忙时刻，天蒙蒙，车来攘往多危险？
相信马上想起啃老族。
什么是啃老族？
就是孩子怕辛苦，选择在家接受父母接济。
但事有两面， 之前说的老妈，怕独生女嫁了不理自己，情愿把她留在身边，纵容，让她闯祸，久之，空虚，依赖，害怕得再不敢面对人群。虽不愁吃穿，但已不知为何而活？这是真人真事。
父母者是否想过，一旦过世，孩子将如何生存？
常见俩老埋怨孩子太忙，为何不想现在是什么时势？上要顾老，下要家小的负担。经已累得喘不过气。
所以该安慰，有个尽责又长进的孩子，太溺爱，反养成贪图安逸，受丁点委屈，便回家吃老米，没钱跟朋友借，父母还，再找不着上代刻苦耐劳的精神。
记得有个寓言，富翁把家财留给两个聪明孩子，独留一把锄头给智障小儿子，教他务农。结局是，小儿子好好活着。而他两个哥哥，却因坐吃山空成了乞丐。
Depends on parents to survive
Early morning, a sixty years old woman, ride a bicycle to buy food for a forty years old jobless daughter.
This period of time is busy hour for sending children to school, very dangerous.
Immediately we thinking about “parasite single”.
What is “parasite single”?
It means children afraid of working hard and choose to stay with parents.
Everything have both side of effect. The old woman scared of if the daughter married wont bothered about her. So she stay her aside, make her feel emptiness, unconfident to face people. Although she is not worried about food and clothing, but she live not meaningful. This is a true story.
Did parents think about how if they passed away? The children how to survive?
We often hear parents complain their child is too busy, what why do they not think about how tough nowadays? The need to take care of old generation and burden by their children too.
So you should happy that you got a responsible and mature children. If too spoil, will make them scare to face problem and cannot solve it themselves.
I remember there are a story about a rich man leave the wealth for two clever son and leave a hoe to the stupid son, teach him farming. The ending is the stupid son survive but both his brother become beggars.
This period of time is busy hour for sending children to school, very dangerous.
Immediately we thinking about “parasite single”.
What is “parasite single”?
It means children afraid of working hard and choose to stay with parents.
Everything have both side of effect. The old woman scared of if the daughter married wont bothered about her. So she stay her aside, make her feel emptiness, unconfident to face people. Although she is not worried about food and clothing, but she live not meaningful. This is a true story.
Did parents think about how if they passed away? The children how to survive?
We often hear parents complain their child is too busy, what why do they not think about how tough nowadays? The need to take care of old generation and burden by their children too.
So you should happy that you got a responsible and mature children. If too spoil, will make them scare to face problem and cannot solve it themselves.
I remember there are a story about a rich man leave the wealth for two clever son and leave a hoe to the stupid son, teach him farming. The ending is the stupid son survive but both his brother become beggars.
